This time last year I was just finishing off week one of Winter Term at North Central. I had just returned to America from spending Christmas at home and was wishing I was still there.
Although studying abroad and living in America for a year was the greatest experience of my life, at the time I didn’t fully appreciate just how great it was. Instead I focused on the food I missed from home, the never ending school work I had to do, and the awkwardness of sharing a dorm with someone else.
It wasn’t until I returned back home that I realised just how much I had experienced, and how much I would miss studying abroad.
If you’re thinking of studying abroad, DO IT! Despite the homesickness, language barriers, and unfamiliar food, it will be the best thing you have ever done in your life.
I am able to look back now, 6 months later, and see that I miss it all, even the bad stuff, and also recognise the mistakes I made that could have made it, if possible, and even better year.
Over-Packing
When I boarded the plane to Chicago to start my first term abroad, I had with me the largest suitcase I could buy, a carry stuffed with clothes, and a backpack filled with so much stuff, I could barely close it.
But I was convinced that I needed to bring with me as much stuff as possible. My giant case was just under the weight limit, and I was lucky my carry on case was not weighed, as that definitely would have been over the limit.
I just had to bring with me outfits for every occasion and weather possible. Yet by the end of my year abroad, I had maybe only worn half of what I brought with me.
When it came to packing my cases to finally go home, I probably donated at least half of what I brought with me, making space for instead souvenirs and other keepsakes from my year in America, that meant more to me than some clothes.
Buying Books
Textbooks in America are expensive. The bookstore on campus had the option for students to either buy books, or for a cheaper rent the books, and then return them at the end of term.
For my first two terms I rented as many of my books as I could, but there were a couple that I unfortunately had to buy. The bookstore and many online bookstores did offer to buy student textbooks back, but for a drastically smaller cost, usually just a few cent, which can mean a great loss if you purchased a book for $70.
It wasn’t until my third term that I realised that I could order in books from other libraries within the state and just loan them from my college’s library for FREE.
I saved myself a large amount of money, money that I then used to go travelling around America at the end of my study abroad.
Studying
Now I don’t regret studying (it was the reason I was there) but I do regret the amount of time I spent studying.
I enjoyed many of the classes I took while studying abroad, but a lot of them had heavy workloads, and I would often spend many of my evening and weekends doing work, for classes that at the end of my year, wouldn’t count.
I spent much of my time doing work, when I could have instead been exploring Chicago, or taking weekend trips to other cities.
I don’t regret all of the studying I did – I made the Dean’s honours list every term, but looking back I wish I could have spent more time spending time with my international friends and exploring America.
Thinking About Home
Getting homesick while living abroad for a year was inevitable, but I was one of the lucky few who got to travel home for christmas, while many of my friends did not have the option.
But trying to negotiate time differences to be able to phone home was alien to me. No longer could I phone my mum at any time of the day and expect her to be able to answer.
By the end of my year abroad, I couldn’t wait to go home and eat all the food I missed, see all the people I missed, and sleep in my own bed!
But focusing on these things, especially towards the end left me leaving America glad that I was leaving, when I should have been appreciating all of the new and different things America had offered me, instead of comparing them to what I was used to at home.
Being “Bored”
There were many weekends and evenings I was “bored.”
But what I actually was was lazy!
All of the time I was just sat around with friends watching TV, doing nothing could have been spent meeting new people, attending many of the events held on campus, and exploring the local area.
Never say you are bored while studying abroad, because there is literally an endless list of things to do in this brand new country you are living in!
Staying In My Comfort Zone
This one ties into the being “bored” and studying mistakes.
Too many times instead of experiencing something new, I instead thought about the cost or the time it would eat up that I could be studying.
While I did take advantage of my time in America and travel to many new places, that a lot of other international students around me did not have the opportunity to, I could have taken more risks.
Try new foods, join a club you have no experience in, become friends with strangers, take risks, because choosing to study abroad is already a step in the right direction for leaving your comfort zone!
I am definitely guilty of overpacking when I travel. I always figure it’s better to have it and not need it than need it and not have it.
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I thought the same and realised half of what I brought with me wasn’t suitable and ended up buying more clothes while there
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I know that I overpack when I travel, but the way I look at it, I would rather have too much than not enough. I don’t necessarily see it as a bad thing.
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That’s what I thought as well, but then at the end of the year I ended up throwing away so much stuff because it wouldn’t all fit in my case, it was just a waste.
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Traveling abroad is such a luxury and a special treat to get to be a part of! I dont think I would be bored if I had that option (love traveling!) when I was in school, but its important to be aware of all that is around you to explore and take in!
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I’m glad you realized all of this so the next time you are traveling it will be better!!! Live and learn! I either pack too much or forget things!
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I lived abroad for 7 years. These are great tips – especially getting out of your comfort zone and exploring the country you are in. What a great experience, live it up!
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I so wish I had had the opportunity to study abroad! That would have been amazing!
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A good list for someone to consider if they are going abroad to study. Since I live here in the states, it seems odd to me to call studying abroad to mean America!
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It’s been awhile since I studied abroad but it was an incredible experience. These are amazing tips, especially not getting bored – thanks for sharing!
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These all sound like amazing tips! I wish I would have studied abroad when I was in school! This all sounds like a fun experience.
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It really was, it was the best year of my life
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These are really great tips for those who want to study abroad. I can’t imagine being bored when there is so much to see and experience.
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Studying abroad is such an amazing opportunity. But I can see how things may make it difficult. Great tips that you shared!
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I like the one about not studying too much – It would be so sad to be in a cool place and not be out enjoying it.
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While I haven’t studied abroad, I can relate to many of these tips. I can only imagine being away from home for a year would be really difficult, but it sounds like even though you have a few regrets, you still had a great time.
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I have always wanted to go abroad when I was in college. I didnt get the opportunity but I think I will have one to another country to learn Spanish this year! Great tips I will be pinning this!
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These are fantastic tips. I love the one about getting bored (why!) and spending too much time studying. There is so much studying you can do just by going out and watching people of other cultures.
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I’ve only gone on a few trips but I overpack every single time. It’s such a bad habit and pain in the butt. These are some really great tips to know… very helpful to many!
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I never lived abroad – I always wanted too but never got round too it. Thank you for the helpful tips. xx
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These are such good tips! I kind of wish I’d considered studying abroad when I was applying for uni. For some reason I always had London stuck in my head so now I live and study there. Great post 🙂
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Studying abroad is something I always wanted to do, especially as an art history major. These are wonderful tips!
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Over packing is definitely where I would struggle! I do that or I pack decently and then I end up buying a ton of stuff when I get there!
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I would love to study abroad. I’ve been thinking todo it for after my uni degree. I for one would definitely be one to overpack so must take on board your advice!
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I don’t think I’ll be studying abroad anytime soon (done with college and grad school) but will save these tips for my younger sisters!
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I’ve never studied abroad and I really wanted to. Not to study per se but to explore the city and have fun. It would’ve been something to cross off my bucket list.
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I was born in Russia but I live and study in America for the last 8 years or so. One of the lessons I learned is to never purchase but rather rent textbooks. I agree with your statement that books are so expensive here and rentals is such a great way to save money!
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These are all wonderful tips! And you’re so right, textbooks can be so costly. That’s why I like that renting books is an option. – HilLesha
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I totally love the idea of going abroad, and going OUT of my comfort zone. It’s one of the best parts of doing something like this. I never had the option too, but it’s why I wanna go to Europe every opportunity I can get! xx Adaleta Avdic
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This is wonderful advice. I wish I could have studied abroad. My sister said it was amazing. I have a tendency to be shy but would have loved to get out and try new things.
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Great advice. I always wanted to study abroad but I never got around to it or got the opportunity I guess for any of the courses I was interested in. Hopefully it was a good experience
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You’re so right about the being “bored” and staying in your comfort zone–even though it sometimes makes you feel exhausted to take chances and do new things, it will mean so much more when you return from studying abroad.
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